Love In Exile

A Sunday Times (London) bestseller. Named a Most Anticipated Book by Vogue , Vulture , and ELLE UK. "Uncommonly wise and honest. Love in Exile flooded me with a sense of continuity and hope. A masterpiece from start to finish." —Maggie Nelson, author of Like Love "Should be required reading for anyone who wants to join a dating app, love ethically, or experience true partnership with other humans." —Melissa Febos, author of Girlhood and The Dry Season A disarmingly wry treatise-cum-memoir on love in a lonely age by a celebrated thinker and columnist for Vogue . Love is supposedly attainable for us all. But for most people, especially women, success with "love"—the yardstick we use to measure our value across romance, parenthood, sex, religion, and friendship—can feel out of reach, an experience frequently ascribed to a personal [...]failing. This sense of...